Sensitivity and Honesty, Principals Part 2

It’s important to remember that a lot of the people who come to see you to get a private reading or a private session or what ever you call it - for them, this will be their last resort and maybe they’ve been to their minister, maybe they talked to their friends or their family, maybe they’ve been asking themselves questions their whole life - why their life is going this way or always be a better way - in short they’re coming to you because you’re their last resort. 

This puts you in a bit of a tricky situation because you want to provide, of course the best possible connection and the clearest possible connection you can make to channel and I know that you know that and I know that you will do your utmost to do that but there’s more.  

There will be times when people want to talk about a session after they’ve had it and you may or may not, depending upon how you channel, have some recollection of what came through you. 

If you don’t have any recollection of what came through you then you’re in a position where you probably need to listen more then talk. But if you have some recollection or if they start talking about it and bits and pieces come back to you - then if they ask you personally rather then the entity you channel what you think about this or that just say what ever your honest feelings are and keep in mind that they’re probably in a sensitive and vulnerable position and many of these people have probably never asked this of someone they don’t know, what ever it is they’re asking. 

So you have to learn essentially how to talk to people - and a interesting thing comes up here - alright. Many of you doing this channeling -alright - may not have always been very glib. Maybe words weren’t easy for you and you wished when you were younger or desired without saying it - you wished that you had all the words you needed in all the ways you needed to say them so that people would know and understand what you were exactly trying to say or that you would be able to help them or comfort them with just the right words. I’m not saying you all are like that but some of you are. 

So know this then, I’m not expecting you to be perfect - you’re human beings and so am I - we’re not perfect but we can try to be as much as we can be in the most benevolent way we can be a good Channel and while the person is there talking to us but only if they want to talk about the session - don’t you bring it up - alright - then we try to be sensitive, kind and considerate if that’s appropriate. Occasionally it isn’t but most of the time it will be. 

So, that’s all I wanted to say about that for now - alright. Goodlife

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